**From the *New York Times *bestselling author of* The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F *ck* and *Get Your Sh* t Together* comes more straight talk about how to stand up for who you are and what you really want, need, and deserve–showing ****when it’s okay to be selfish* *,* *why it’s pointless to be perfect,* ***and how to be difficult.* *** **Being yourself should be easy, yet too many of us struggle to live on other people’s terms instead of our own. Rather than feeling large and in charge, we feel little and belittled. Sound familiar? Bestselling anti-guru Sarah Knight has three simple words for **YOU DO YOU.* *** **It’s time to start putting your happiness first–and stop letting other people tell you what to do, how to do it, or why it can’t be done. And don’t panic! You can do it without losing friends and alienating people. Knight delivers her trademark no-bullsh* t advice The Tyranny of Just Because The social contract and how to amend it Turning flaws into strengths–aka mental redecorating Why it’s not your job to be nice Letting your freak flag fly How to take risks, silence the doubters, and prove the haters wrong **Praise for Sarah Knight** Genius. — *Cosmopolitan* Self-help to swear by. — *Boston Globe* Hilarious… truly practical. — *Booklist *